I wrote a blog at the beginning of the year about my oracle workshop experience. Today is July 1, 2025. I pulled my July cards and thought I would share my reflection.
Last night, I slid three of my hand-made oracle cards under my pillow. This is something I don’t normally do. But, it felt right. July is here. With it comes the soft pull to recommit to the parts of me that are healing. They are shifting and shedding. The dream that followed was vivid and strangely beautiful:
There were bugs on the walls—creatures in cocoons. One hatched. It was something like a hermit crab. It was bigger and more aggressive. I had to grab it with my bare hands and throw it outside. It fought me. It was spiky, spicy, alive. But I got it out. I did that.
I woke up with the lingering feeling of its shell in my hands. I also felt the echo of clarity from the cards I had tucked beneath me.
Here’s my July oracle spread:
💜 Vulnerability
This card came to me on a textured red and gold backdrop—raw, elemental. It reminds me that vulnerability isn’t about being delicate, but about being available in the discomfort. It’s about grabbing the spiky things inside of me and saying, “Okay. I see you. I’ve got you.”
💗 Stay in Loving Relation with Myself
This is the real work, right? Not just loving myself when I’m glowing, but staying with myself when I feel messy, uncertain, or deeply human. What does it look like to stand beside myself when I’m scared? I am working so hard right now to “sit” with my discomfort. The connections that I value so much need boundaries to reconnect with myself. Setting these boundaries is so painful. I am working hard to see the value in what I am doing and be patient for the reward. I know that I am doing too much, and need to make time for rest and self care. That is next on my list.
💙 I Will Do Things With Love
Even when I’m setting boundaries. Even when I’m letting go. Even when I’m tired. Love isn’t soft in the way the world defines it. It’s honest. It’s fierce. It’s the fuel I choose again and again. Love myself, set intentions, sit with myself and my feelings. Listen to my higher self and take action that will fuel my growth.
As I step into this month, I’m asking myself:
- What old, armored parts of me are ready to be released?
- How can I meet the next phase with tenderness and strength?
- What happens when I let love be the compass
I am on a transformation journey. It’s one I never thought I would embark on. I am learning each day to choose myself, to honor myself, and to value myself. When I took the oracle workshop, Roxie said I would find myself looking ahead to the first of the month. She said I would get these messages from my past self. I am absolutely relishing in the joy of these universal messages. I curated them unknowingly. I am traversing this landscape of my unknown self. Growing, changing, stretching and finding peace in sitting in my own skin. It’s uncomfortable but I am embracing it.
If you’re moving through something spiky or shedding something old—I see you. July is a chance to keep coming home to yourself, even (especially) when it’s hard.
With love and a little dream dust,
🌀 Bex
I listened to this song while I wrote my blog this morning. Its off the Billie Eilish Hard and Soft Album. The song is called Blue, a reminder to me that you can only save yourself, choose yourself. Someone really special in my journey shared it with me. It’s absolutely beautiful. If you want to go on a love journey, take the time. Listen to the album in its entirety yourself.
Ps: wanna read my oracle blog. find it here-
✨ What about you? What’s one word or phrase guiding your July?
Drop it in the comments—I’d love to hold that intention with you. 💬🌙
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